“Why Did He Choose Her and not ME?”- The Psychopath’s Discard and the New Victim


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Survivors begin to move forward when they understand and finally accept that their ex partner was disordered. It’s at this point that they are they able to switch gears and begin to look at their involvement in the relationship and what made them vulnerable to a psychopath or narcissist in the first place.

She will have her own lessons to learn,  just as you are learning them now.

I wish you peace.

Cryominute says~ My entries on my wordpress called “Love Bombers”

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Blog Time Out


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I received a message in a dream last night. I was in the shallow Mangroves at Snipes Point. It was a beautiful day. The skies were blue and the bellowing clouds seemed to speak too me. I kept hearing the words~Time and Out.

So, I am heeding the advice.

Be Back Soonish I am sure Smile

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  • UPDATE

This is an PNG file and works great in emails on white background. It is floating. Here, not so. It has a WHITE Background and BOX around it. I do not like the BOX. My WordPress THEME (iTHEME2 THEME) used to have the option in customize to make it Light or Dark. White on black, or black on white. Now it is just the dark. I never cared for the light but it would make the transparencies pop more. It’s my favorite theme since I made it my own. So, I do not want to change it.

I am really hating these border crossings

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I’m trying new learning curves and the best way to do it.

Lots of Trials and Errors.

Oh and I know about the code to take out the box.

Photo from where you uploaded it too. Copy the html and insert.

At the bottom

Like this:

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 See, it looks see through when I write the post than after posting has the box around it and dark background. I am too confused. My brain is dead.

I feel like my hamster on his wheel running in circles. It’s a gif file so he runs the wheel.

Hamster

Another try at something:

This clickable link below takes you to a preview of transparencies on a white background.

It is from my other blog Salt and Sand

Transparencies

Traffic Light Rule of Interaction


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Can we have a bit of whine and cheese with that please ?

http://www.martynemko.com/articles/do-you-talk-too-much_id1371
The Traffic Light Rule of Interaction

I know for a fact I talk too much. I’ve been told to Shad Up on more than one occasion.

Wine really brings it out of me, like the intensity of water cascading from a waterfall.

I just have so many stories, experiences.

My dad was a great story teller. I could listen for hours the way he described situations. I miss his spirit, his enthusiasm for life.

His laughter.

No Rattle with that Quiver


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Queen Minnie is purr-fection. She’s 12 years old. 

 

She is such a curious and serious feline. Very petite.Doesn’t seem to age.

Her tail quivers like a rattlesnake without the rattle.

Cats are a mysterious kind of folk. There is more passing in their minds than we are aware of.
Sir Walter Scott

Happiness

Although a tail in motion isn’t usually a positive sign, exceptions do exist. For instance, if your fluff ball’s tail is shooting straight up into the air while it’s vibrating and shaking, she is probably feeling giddy about something. If your cat reacts this way upon seeing you, take it as a huge compliment. After all, cats never lie about their emotions — one of the greatest things about them.

Source:

Quiver and Shake

Enchanting Bow After The Rain


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R A I N B O W

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Always keep looking up, or you might miss it. On the other hand occasionally look down so you don’t trip up Winking smile

Remember the rainbow, not the storm.

Your reality is how you perceive the illusion of it.

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“When experiencing profound love, but unable to change for the better, losing this love can repair another.

To quote Carol Burnett, ‘You have to love someone enough to let them hate you.’

Sometimes we must leave abusers to teach them love after first letting them experience

it, if love by itself is not enough. The loss of it can be profound.”

Source:

http://www.tokenrock.com/blogs/once-broken-repair-is-a-long-hard-climb-1232.html

Snapshots in Our Brain


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I remember my designated Aunt Nellie so fondly reciting “Yippee Tippy Tango Ar Bar Brusky Yippee Tippy Tango fell in the well” story. That’s why we do not name our children with long names she would say.

I just researched it and found she changed the name as it is called something else entirely. Or perhaps I just remembered it that way, the way she would take a deep breath and say “Oh My”

 

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Holding On to That Limb


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“Some people are simply that way; they won’t let go of the branch, till they have a firm grip on the next.
Yep, some people, are like monkey’s on a tree. They hold on to that limb for dear life. They only let go when they are positive someone else is waiting to pick them up.”

Egret March Everyday


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Birds of a feather flock together

~Welsh Proverb

These lovelies greet me every morning when I open my front door. The three cats sit in front of my open door. They are curious yet mesmerized by them. They don’t try to eat them. Glad China’s taste for birdie appetizer was satisfied with Buttons (parakeet). Than I mistakenly gave the birds avocado. Evidently Bows (parakeet)ate the most of it and had a seizure, fluttered and died in my hands.

They are joined by seagulls, roosters, hens and chicks, and the occasional iguana.

They have a fondness for Cuban bread.

I was thinking of the vintage candy Chick-O-Sticks (Can only find them online)

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At the store I decided to go with sesame honey crunch and peanut butter crunch candies. The ones that don’t have so much sugar.

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Actually I was thinking of things Hempy Bug Hamster would like. Pumpkin seeds (Natural). Sunflower seeds unsalted.

Popped a Stella so I am over and out.

The visitors.

I love reminiscing. Especially when the stories are the same. Lots of laughs.

Of course as we well know each of us takes a snapshot in our minds of events, so when it doesn’t differ you know it was a good one.

Those were the days.

Thankful Blessings that we are here NOW to remember it.